happy Saturday!
September 06, 2008 @ 10:49 AM CDT
Welcome Everyone!
Thank you for visiting the site! We have many new surprises coming, so please check back.
In the meantime, feel free to look around. Read the forum, check out the photos, there are some great links, read my bio ( a work in progress ). I hope you enjoy your visit.
Jimmy and I are now official "empty nesters". Our son Dustin moved out last night.
Even though he had lived on campus at Vanderbilt for 4 years, he's been with us the last two years. I have to admit, I was pretty teary eyed when I watched the moving truck pull out of the drive.
Dustin had the entire downstairs of our house which consists of a living room, a big bedroom, and bathroom. I haven't been downstairs yet. I'm not ready to see his clothes and personal belongings gone.
We raise our children to become independent but when they come into their own, we mourn. Isn't being human strange?
All three of our "children" are independent, funny and good people. My Mom always said, "Children don't come with instruction manuals. You just do the best you can." I'm thankful they turned out well; It's a tough job.
Jimmy (my husband) is a golf addict. I know absolutely nothing about the game, but I have decided that instead of being a "golf widow" I might as well learn how to play. We live on the golf course, so that's a great way to spend time together. I'm looking forward to it.
I have NEVER thought of myself as a golfer, but it's better than sitting here waiting for him to come in from playing right? I guess I better get myself in motion.
Have a great weekend, and do something nice for you today!
Love,
- Kathy
Labor Day
September 01, 2008 @ 10:05 AM CDT
Here we are again exactly 3 years after Katrina, holding our breaths while Gustav is starting to show it's intense fury.
Louisiana is still in it's "toddler stage" after all this time. Barely taking a few steps forward, only to be brought once again to it's knees.
If I believed in coincidence I'd say how ironic that EXACTLY 3 years to the day comes a bigger storm than ever, also the day the Republicans were to start their convention.
Wasn't it the government that failed the people so badly that we lost thousands of lives the last time?
Don't worry, that's all I'll say about it. My site isn't a political platform for me to rant, but I had to mention the obvious.
I worry about the families and hope the stress of what they've been through gives them strength, although I'm sure despair and desperation is looming over their heads.
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Starkville's "Pardon Johnny Cash" festival will be here before we know it! We love that town and plan to make the journey every Fall. We had a great time last year! I believe the festival will grow by leaps and bounds every year until it draws so many people, the town may not be able to handle it.
The Main Street closes down to accommodate the stage for non-stop entertainment all day and evening Saturday. The rest of the street is full of vendors selling unusual artwork and beautiful handmade items. Restaurants and quaint shops line the street
leaving visitors something to explore at every stop.
If you can't make it this year, please try to plan on coming next year. It's well worth the trip! I will have a booth this year, and Jimmy is playing Saturday night. He has the spot right between Billy Joe Shaver and Rosanne.
I still have made no progress to speak of on my next page of the bio. I've had so much going on lately. I will be adding several things to the site, but realistically, it will probably be a couple of weeks. I have some great ideas that I'm anxious to add to my site. LOTS of surprises coming!
If this is your first visit here, WELCOME! I'm so happy you found us and hope you'll visit often. Feel free to look around and get to know us.
If you're already part of the family, let me take this opportunity once again to thank you for being here. YOU are the reason we're here.
Happy Labor day to all. Love,
- Kathy
A busy week
August 23, 2008 @ 8:14 PM CDT
Hi Everyone!
I've been a bit absent this week for many reasons. My sister Carlene stayed with us for a few days and we had a lot to catch up. We always laugh and have the best time. One night Jimmy and Carlene got the guitars out and sang into the morning. It was great.
Carlene's schedule is hectic and crazy, so it's great to spend time with her. I don't know how she does it, but it's good for us because she comes through Nashville often.
I also had several appointments this week and accomplished quite a bit towards the Starkville Festival. ( www.pardonjohnnycash.com ) I hope to see you there. It's great fun and a nice getaway for the weekend.
This year's event looks as if it's going to be at least twice the size as last year!
I have received several e-mails asking "when are you going to put part 19 of the bio up?"
I'm working on it, I really am. I've reached a point in my childhood that's a bit painful and
takes more thought than the other chapters. I benefit from writing about it, but I also have to take occasional breaks. I actually started it over a month ago. Once I give myself a shove, it will flow a little easier and faster.
We'll be adding more to the site on a regular basis. We have a few surprises in store, so stay tuned!
Have a good relaxing weekend and drop by when you can.
love,
- Kathy
Happy Saturday!
August 16, 2008 @ 1:54 PM CDT
Welcome to kathycash.com! I'm happy you're here!
Feel free to zoom around, read the forums, look at the photos, read my bio (a work in progress) and sign up to be a member if you'd like. The advantage of becoming a member enables you to read the private forum, post and find out about upcoming events and news. (You DO NOT have to post, it's a perk of being a member.) Of course, this is a totally free site, so no subscription fees are required. You may also want to check out my "LINKS" page. All of the site mentioned are either family and friend related or my favorite places to browse.
We are always striving to expand this site, continuing to add fun little surprises and things of interest. Unlike many other web sites, we don't have a long list of rules and guidelines. All I ask is to keep it as "PG-13" as possible, be respectful of each other and have fun!
On October 17th through the 19th, we're heading to Starkville, MS. It's an annual event (as of last year ) honoring Dad. For more information you can check out the website here: www.pardonjohnnycash.com
We had a great time last year! The people are friendly, the shopping is fun, the music is great and the town is quaint and easy to navigate. After one visit, you'll want to make it an annual trip, just as we do.
This year, Rosanne Cash, Billy Joe Shaver and Jimmy Tittle (my talented husband) are three of the acts that will be performing Saturday night the 18th. I will also have a kathycash.com booth. Plan on coming if you can get away; Starkville is a fun little town that rolls out the red carpet for this event, with non-stop entertainment.
( Lodging and other information is on their website.)
Have a great weekend!
Love,
- Kathy
GOOD Morning! A few random thoughts..
August 09, 2008 @ 10:54 AM CDT
I FINALLY slept last night.
This week has been another one of those "WHAT IS MY PROBLEM?" weeks. From Sunday to yesterday I managed to survive on a total of seven hours sleep. Last night I crashed and woke up this morning at 10:00 A.M. feeling like a human being.
I had the sleep test at Vanderbilt about a month ago. I won't bore you with all the details, but my tests showed no apnea. "Severe sleep disorders" was the conclusion the doctor came to. I had 22 minutes of R.E.M. sleep and less than 4 hours of sleep. The solution? She recommended a book for me to read. UM....okay. That should do the trick. 
The good thing is, I'm among the living today. My concentration and memory is back. What a blessing to feel like a real person!
Now I need to check out the forum and see what I've missed, and after a huge demand... time to work more on that bio if mine. It seems I have many people sitting on the edge of their seats for the next chapter! That's nice to know.
Many people write me e-mails, but they aren't comfortable yet with posting. That's okay. On your own time maybe you'll join our little group. We'll be here when you decide to "come on in".
I'm putting the word out. I have about 4 books rolling around in this little gray matter of mine. If anyone knows of a good publisher, let me know. I'm actively looking now.
We have a short reprieve from the burning sun today. It's in the 70's today and beautiful. I intend to take full advantage of it, so Jimmy and I are going to bust outta here today and do something fun.
I'll check back with ya'll later! Much love to all,
- Kathy
Saturday... August 2
August 02, 2008 @ 2:21 PM CDT
Welcome to my "haven".
If it's your first time to visit, please look around. We have many different areas of interest including a large photo section, discussion forums, my bio (a work in progress)
and other areas of interest.
We have a great time here and hope you'll sign up as a member so we can get to know you and you can get to know us!
Whether you stay and hang around, or just visit once, thank you for coming by!
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My husband Jimmy and I just got back from the cemetary "visiting" Dad and June's resting place. A few months ago, we were forced to cover the graves with bronze ledgers due to the thousands of fans that have come to pay their respects these last 5 years.
YES...FIVE years! June passed May 15 2003, and Dad's 5th year is almost upon us. (September 12) The sod had been replaced 7 times since their deaths due to the traffic.
Extremely hard to believe it's been that long since we shared a hug, a laugh or a tear together. Does it get easier? No. It just gets "different." Mom died 3 years ago this
past May 24th. Losing 3 parents, a sister, 2 Aunts, an Uncle and many friends in 5 years has changed me.
Have I changed for the better? I don't know. I'd like to think so.
I find myself looking out for them and speaking up in their defense if someone has something negative to say about them. (Which is absurd since THEY didn't KNOW them.) Thank goodness, it's a rare occasion.
I find myself wondering, what would they tell me to do? Or, what advice would they have for me? How would they handle the situation? How can I honor them?
Well, I have come to the conclusion....it DOES take a village. Not just to raise a child, but to accomplish the dreams and goals we have in our heads.
I know this sounds cliche', but I DO want to make a difference. I have many projects
that will take hard work, organization (which I'm ROTTEN at) funds, and determination.
I'll talk about that a little more in the near future.
The upcoming project to focus on at the moment is The "Pardon Johnny Cash Festival" in Starkville, Mississippi October 17 - 19th. Plan on being there if you can, its great fun, a cool town and many surprises!
I'll be there, and would love to meet you!
Love to all,
- Kathy
hello...
July 26, 2008 @ 2:20 PM CDT
Hello Everyone!
WELCOME to my site! If you're new here, please look around. The menu will allow you to navigate the photo sections, the bio (that I need to write another chapter to) and our forums. The forums can be read whether you're a member or not. We'd love for you to join our little "family" when you feel comfortable with it.
Everyone is kind and believe me, you won't feel like a newcomer very long! We won't let you. We have a great site here with friends from all over the globe.
The forum has 4 separate areas.
"General discussion" means you can post just about any topic you want or respond to any topic. "Ask Kathy" is obviously where you can ask me questions. I check all forums several times a day, so none of your questions will go unanswered.
The other sections focus on "sending positive energy or prayer" (whichever you believe in) to members asking for certain needs.
The last forum is the "Johnny Cash Festival" forum. We're planning on having a festival in Dad's honor in 2009. If you have any experience in planning , organizing or events of any kind, we could use some input! All I ask is, be nice, let's keep it PG13 and have fun!
I had an inspiring, unusual and interesting week.
I've had so much mail about the following topic. I brought this up in the General Forum area but I have been asked by a lot of people that were THERE to post on my blog about it.
IF you are offended by the discussion of psychics, mediums or anything of the sort, you may want to quit reading.
I am a HUGE fan of Lisa Williams, who is a medium and clairvoyant. She had a TV show on the LIFETIME television channel where I fell in love with her spirit and kind nature.
A couple of months ago, I found out she would be at the Ryman in Nashville so five minutes after tickets went on sale, I bought 6 of them!
Last Saturday night (the 19th) was the BIG NIGHT and I was so excited I could hardly wait! I knew that my chances of having a reading were slim to none, but I wasn't concerned about that. I wanted to be in the room with her and feel the energy of the audience. (OF COURSE I WAS HOPING FOR ONE, but really didn't count on it.)
My husband Jimmy, our daughter Kacy, and three great friends, (my longtime girlfriend
Dennie, her husband Larry and one of our "adopted" kids, Linc ) all went to dinner and got to the Ryman early. The doors weren't even opened yet.
When we finally found our seats I was a bit disappointed. Even though I had bought tickets very early on, we were in the center of the main floor but in row "H". I had hoped to be closer, but luckily she had huge screens on the stage, with camera men placed around the auditorium so everyone could see the person she was doing a reading for.
FINALLY, LISA WILLIAMS comes out! She gave a brief talk about how she does her readings which is basically passing on messages from loved ones on the other side for the loved ones in the audience. She came out at 8:00 PM, and told us she would finish around 11:00 PM.
(Jimmy and Larry were "less than thrilled" about being there, but they sat through it anyway. They thought it was a "woman thing".) Whatever. I was having a great time.
After 2 and 1/2 hours, Lisa had blown all of us away. She didn't have vague messages, but very specific messages, calling the ones that had passed over by name and telling in detail personal things that could only be known by the parties she had "heard from" and the people the messages were for.
At 10:45, I knew I was going home without a reading but it was okay.
She had just finished helping 2 parents that had lost their adult children to suicide. It was very emotional and I was having a sad cry with most of the audience. I was grateful for those parents that got answers to some of the questions they must have had.
Then, expecting Lisa to end the night, she said, "I have a little boy here about 4 or 5 that died of leukemia. It's for someone in this section." (as she points to our section.)
Several hands went up, and I sat there watching UNTIL I remembered that my Uncle Roy and Aunt Dene had lost a 4 year old boy named Larry to leukemia before I was ever born. I thought for a minute, and reluctantly put my hand up thinking, "No way this is for me."
She asked the people who had their hands up certain questions, and then pointed to me and said, "This is for you my love."
I stood up still skeptical thinking it had to be for someone that KNEW the little boy that had passed. A man handed me a microphone and then I noticed my face on that screen, which I might add, was intimidating seeing your face blown up at least 100 times the normal size...EEK.
Okay, focus Kathy..
She asked if this little boy was not a close relative, but did he know my Grandfather?
I said "yes, we had the same Grandfather." Then she asked if this was a long time ago. "I said, yes...he was about 4 and I think he died before I was born."
Then she said, He says you should be up here on stage doing what I'm doing. Do you know you have a gift.?" I said "yes, I do."
And then all of a sudden, my Dad, June and my Mom all came through! She started telling me EXACTLY how my "2 Mothers" looked and how they were, she asked about
"3 Sisters that sing." "Do you and 2 sisters sing?" I said, "no, 2 sisters do, and then it hit me. I said, "My stepmother and her sisters were a singing trio!" She said, "oh that makes sense... okay."
She told me that my Mom was beautiful and that her purse and shoes always had to match. TRUE. She says "your Mom is adorable, wants to pinch your cheeks and says something about being a lady." THAT blew me away. From the time I can remember, my sweet Mom ALWAYS said, "Act like a lady." Then she described Junes' hair and how pretty it is, and how she also loved me very much. ( she did) She was completely accurate about my Mom and June. I felt so good.
Then she tells me that Dad is there and he wants to talk. She starts telling me details about his passing that ONLY me and 2 of my siblings know! It was such an exciting moment, I was trying to explain to Lisa about what he meant when I had a HUGE "Kathy moment". A VERY embarrassing moment. I get a bit tongue tied when I get excited.
(If you are easily offended, please pass this next part.)
I was TRYING to tell her that "yes, he was on a VENTILATOR" but instead...said, (as I'm POINTING TO MY MOUTH) "Yes, he was on a vibrator." OMG!!!!!!!!!
The entire audience lost it and I was horrified. Too late to recover from that one.
I NEVER say that word, so where in the WORLD did that come from????!!!!
I hid my face, hoped the floor would swallow me up at that very moment, but NO...the laughter went on. I looked at the screen and there is my enormous RED face.
Oh, how perfect.
My one chance to meet Lisa and GET A READING and I totally humiliate myself in front of hundreds of people and HER. She got a huge kick out of it though.
I finally caught my breath, said, "wow...I don't know where that came from. DAD made me say that...and I know my husband is glad he decided to sit in the back."
She said, "that was great, but your Mom is horrified and your Dad is a mischievous one isn't he? He wants to know more about that vibrator."
MORE LAUGHTER. Okay, after many very heavy and emotional readings, it's true. We all needed a laugh. It was at MY expense, but it's okay. I've received many e-mails about how funny it was from people that were in the audience.
The reading lasted a few more moments, and then she said ," Your Dad said, Okay...we're leaving. He's waving to the entire audience."
That's my Dad.
It was such a blessing for me. It was the last reading of the night, and I was elated.
(YES, my family and friends are still laughing at me, but it's okay. It certainly isn't the first time and it won't be the last I'm sure.)
Lisa actually wrote about my reading on her BLOG that night!!! I am so thrilled!
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if you want to read about it, here it is: (posted 7/19 on www.lisawilliamsmedium.com)
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Star struck by spirit!
Tonights event was heavy, and it's rare that I break down and cry but tonight I did. A young boy had commited suicide and his parents were in the audience and it was so moving... I am glad I was able to connect them together. It was just crazy... far from the X rated evening we had last night!! lol
Well it's very late and I am being collected from the hotel at 7.30 in the morning but I have to share something amazing with you. It normally gets to 10.45 and if I finish a reading about that time I finish for the night and do my final messages from the mediation before the show, but tonight something made me do another one... I didn't know why but now I do.
I started reading for a woman and the connection was a little boy who was bring through someone else... it was the womans mother, step mother and father... the mothers were lovely and they started talking about the singing trio... well I was in Nashville the music capital... so I didn't think anything of it. Her father took over the reading and when he left, he waved to the whole audience. I wanted to sing in that reading but I had no idea what I wanted to sing or what the words were so I didn't, she commented that he had played that stage that I was on many times.
Well I thought nothing of that, because when I am in the zone I don't think about comments like that...
Well I was blown away when someone in the signing line told me that the father in the last reading was the one and only.... Johnny Cash!!!!!!!!!!!
OMG!!!!!
I was floored! Well I had no idea what Johnny Cash looked like so no wonder I didn't recognize him, but then I was taken to the theaters Johnny Cash room... just incredible!
WOW
Sometimes the readings blow me away and now I know that, I am almost star struck with a spirit... oh how funny!
Ok I have to go to bed I am so tired but have a great rest of the weekend
With love
Lisa xx
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How cool is that??? I have had a calm and happy spirit this week. I know my parents are with me, but I loved having that connection.
If you want to read more, on the General Discussion forum, there is a topic I started called, "An incredible night.. with Lisa Williams."
If you're a skeptic or non believer, I get it. I DO believe. I'd appreciate your respect for that.
Have a great weekend everyone. Much love,
- Kathy
SO GLAD IT'S FRIDAY!
July 18, 2008 @ 8:24 PM CDT
This has been a weird and sad week.
I was sitting in my recliner last night with the window shades open and noticed a strange pink ( almost red) full moon. I don't know about you, but if the moon can control the tide, and we're basically 85% water, then I truly believe it affects human beings.
We lost a good friend this week to suicide. Someone else very close was served with divorce papers at the lowest time of his life. Every day this week has been trying and challenging in one way or another.
I sense panic and fear from many people due to the "recession" some people (UM...a certain politician and his flock) pretend we aren't having.
I know things are tough with gas prices and the cost of living, but I won't let fear keep me from living. I may not go shopping often, and I may not take a cross country drive, but I wasn't planning on doing that anyway. (TAKE THAT O.P.E.C.!!!! Give us a break and quit
gouging us!!)
Oh, sorry...I got carried away for a second.
Focus Kathy, focus..
Okay, back on track. ANYWAY, my parents taught me a long time ago the only cure for fear is FAITH.
It doesn't matter what you believe in, as long as you believe in something.
Faith that there is good in people, and that people are good.
Faith that something greater than us in in charge, be it the Universe, God or a higher force.
Faith that what goes up, will come down. (that goes for the price of things too!)
Faith that love DOES make the World go around.
Faith that no matter how bad things may seem, "this too shall pass."
And most importantly, FAITH IN YOURSELF.
Have a great weekend!
Love,
- Kathy
Have a good weekend!
July 11, 2008 @ 9:23 PM CDT
I'm so happy it's Friday!! I'm tired.
This heat is pretty intense, so I am LOVING air conditioning more than I can tell you. It's in the 90's here in Tennessee with a heat index and humidity making it feel like 120 degrees.
These "power surges" I get aren't helping at all.
Now that I have my computer back I'll be around more than I have been the last week or so.
I'm working on the bio and I have some additional photos I want to add to the site.
Realistically, it will be next week before anything is added because my son Dustin has a birthday tomorrow.
Dustin has built this site for me with a lot of additions from Kacy (my daughter). He'll be 24 tomorrow, so the weekend is full of plans. HAPPY BIRTHDAY SON!
If you have time be sure to visit the forums.
Many thanks to Linda (VACashFan) for organizing the "Johnny Cash Festival" discussion. We're planning to have a festival honoring Dad in 2009. if you are interested in participating, attending or assisting in any capacity, let us know. We'd also love to hear your suggestions.
I don't have much news for this week, but I do want to thank you for coming and encourage you to visit often. We have a lot of fun here.
Much love, 
- Kathy
Monday Monday....
June 30, 2008 @ 7:49 PM CDT
Welcome!
If you're here for the first time, I hope you enjoy your visit enough to stop by often.
It won't take long before you're considered "family"!
If you're already in the family, hello again!
My goal is to add to the site as often as possible, sometimes a photo or two or maybe a new chapter to the bio. Our ever growing forum also stays busy around the clock. If you're a little shy about posting, you're welcome to read any and all of the discussions.
This site has been up for a few short months and we've had almost 33,000 visitors!!! How great is that? We've exceeded expectations weekly on the activity we get!
I'm even more proud of the friendships that have been made at this site and as a result of it. It's a comfy place, so pull up a chair and hang out a while.
I love affirmations. They help me remember to think positive no matter what is going on.
(If you notice, I have many random quotes on the site.)
Here's one for the day: ( You may have read it before, but it's a great reminder. )
"To the world you may be one person.... but to one person you may be the world."
Nice, huh?
It's true.
That quote hangs on my refrigerator. Next to it is another saying, not quite as sweet, but a good reminder for me. (My daughter Kacy gave it to me.... )
"You mean shopping for more useless crap isn't the meaning of life?"
Enough said.
Have a great week and remember to take a few moments for you.
Love,
- Kathy
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